For the best flavor, use high-quality coconut milk and fresh lemons. To prevent the cake layers from sticking, make sure to grease the pans thoroughly and use parchment paper. The lemon curd can be made a day in advance and stored in the refrigerator. Toasting the coconut flakes enhances their flavor and adds a delightful crunch to the cake. Adjust the amount of lemon zest in the frosting to suit your taste.